They have sex about three times a week, which might strike many as enviable, considering that John and Jane—who are in their 40s—have been together for nearly two decades. Based on numbers alone, one might wonder why they need couples counseling at all. Or frequency. Or different. Jane has bought lingerie and booked hotel stays.
If you stay married long enough, your sex life will get boring. Sex gets boring in marriage because couples have what Dr. Given enough time, they will have gone through their playbook often enough to get bored with it.
We all get into a bit of a slump when it comes to sex with our partners. But for one husband, the slump has lasted the whole 15 years of marriage. And he has taken to Reddit to let out his frustration and a desperate plea for advice.